To Be, or To not Be

To Pursue or Retreat

To Love or Hate

To Hold or Let go

To Stay or Move on

To Give or Take

To... to... to... to.....

We face these everyday of our lives; Decisions, Steps, Actions or Inaction. Some HUGE, others not so much of a big deal. In fact not taking a decision/action is in itself a decision/action. Battles we fight; some we share, most we deal with alone. That you do not show what you are going through does not invalidate your feelings, showing mine does not make me weak. We carry our scars differently because life deals us different cards from the deck.

Life is a big pot of beans my dear. Whatever the decision you take, own it Darling. The ones you didn't take, don't beat yourself too much. We live to fight these battles, that's the concise summary of life. When this passes another is sure to come.

Live, Love, Learn, Dream, Smile more, Make up, Break up if you have to, most importantly Eat! Be healthy. The Universe has a way of giving back the energy you pass on, be Happy! Yes, it is not always a smooth sail but this storm will pass and calm will be restored, then a new storm and then calm again. Worry less, appreciate more (I need to take my own advice more!) the little beautiful things of life. Until proven otherwise, You Only Live Once.

Never forget to be kind to everyone. That smile you give might just help the next person through a tough day. The helping hand you offer might just be the big breakthrough in a person's life. You never know how big kindness is until you are on the receiving end. Pay Kindness forward and one day it comes back returning the favor.

...xoxo